A teenage friendship or first crush is a big deal to him, even if it looks trivial to you. Making fun of his friends, dismissing his feelings or announcing his crush to relatives can make him feel exposed and embarrassed, and he may stop sharing anything personal. You are allowed to have concerns about who he spends time with, but start with curiosity instead of criticism. Ask about his friends, show interest in what he enjoys, and keep his confidences private. Trust, once broken, takes a long time to rebuild at this age.
